What does that mean to love yourself? Loving yourself is building a strong inner connection with yourself. You need to learn how to be a loving parent for yourself. First you need to develop your female energy : your Inner Mother, that part of you that is always caring, loving, accepting and understanding you. You also need to develop your inner masculine energy : your Inner Father, who is there to protect you and to act for you in the outside world.
We can intentionally create a lasting vibrant romantic energy with the use of our desire, intention, and attention. We create our own reality from moment to moment. We can create as much romance as we desire if we know how to creatively use our intention and attention.