Does My Partner Still Love Me

If your relationship is on the rocks and you are wondering, “does my partner still love me?”, this is the million dollar question, isn’t it? When things are not going well in any relationship it is very easy to let all of our insecurities boil up to the surface and rear their ugly heads.

The best way to find the answer to “does my partner still love me” is to ask them straight out. Try to prepare for the possibility that they does not. If they answers you that they no longer loves you then ask them to explain themselves. Some relationships just do not last and your’s could be one of them.

If they says they does still love you then there are probably aspects of your relationship that need some work.

Figure out what made you start feeling they didn’t love you. Is they spending more time away from you? Why? Is they working a lot or does they have family obligations that take up much of their time? I guess it doesn’t matter what the reasons are, the result is you feel lonesome and unloved.

It is obvious to me that if they still loves you, your relationship needs some serious tie and attention to get back on the right track. The best way to begin is to learn to communicate better. Talk to them and see if they feels the same way. If they does then ask them if they are willing to do whatever it takes to make the relationship better.

Do not, under any circumstances make demands on them and do not let them make any demands on you. If you work together as a team your relationship will have a much better chance of survival. If they agrees that the relationship needs work then you can both go talk to someone who is experienced in the art of putting relationships back together.

That may be your pastor, or a trusted teacher, or someone who has been through the same things you are going through now, or a professional counselor. Who you decide to talk to is up to you and your budget. You can even get advice online. Some of it is even free.

Before you decide to talk to anyone though, it would be a good idea to sit down together and figure out what the problems are. The best way to do this is to sit down when all is quiet and both take a sheet of paper and pen and make your own lists. When you are done going over them both together and see if things match up or if there are differing opinions as to what is wrong.

Try to work things out together. if you can, great! If you can’t then it would be the time to speak to someone outside of the relationship and get some advice. After all of this work, if you are still wondering, “does my partner still love me” then maybe the relationship is beyond repair.

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