We all have different style of talking, laughing, smiling, responding and communicating. Some of us are a comfort for others. We enjoy being with some people and we don’t enjoy some people. What is the difference between these persons? Why one persons presence enlivens the gathering and other person dulls it? What are the qualities needed to make one self socially popular?
Smile – The very first quality is smile. When we see somebody smiling, we feel pleased. And if the smile is without any malice, it is more enchanting. Keep smiling. Keep your problems with yourself and keep your face smiling.
Listening – When we don’t speak but only listen, people love us. All of us have our own problems and need somebody to listen to us. Become a good listener. Ask open ended question such as – and after that? Why? And so on. That will encourage the speaker to pour out all to you.
Have something funny to say – There is enough pain in the world. Bring in some laughter. Have a collection of jokes and make your friends laugh. The more they laugh, the more they will enjoy your company.
Appreciate – have a word of appreciation for everyone. You can appreciate clothes, or shoes or whatever you feel you like. Appreciate. Make friends feel good.
To be friendly and to be charming is not an art. It can be easily developed by all of us. The only need is to pay less attention to our self and more to others. Make friends happy and they will love your presence. Make your presence the life of any gathering. Success is yours.