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How to be more successful in love

Something that everyone is looking for is love. Because love is something that rarely is found, there is an eagerness to be in love. Most of the time, when you think you love someone, it is truly not the fact. Perhaps it is lust or perhaps it is a strong emotion, but not quite love. There are a lot of reasons why someone is not successful in love, but there are even more reasons why you could be successful in love. You’ll want to consider that there are a lot of people who are looking for love, just like you.

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First, you have to understand that there needs to be times in the relationship where you simply enjoy being together. Obviously, you will not fall in love with someone that you can’t stand to be in the same room. You will want to encourage your relationship to have certain simple times. You could go out and rent a movie to watch; however, do not speak. Simply being in each other’s presence and close to each other will bring chemistry to the situation.

Secondly, you will need to talk to each other greatly. You’ll need to consider that the minute that you learn how to communicate with each other, you’ll begin to feel deeper for the person. When you give yourself some time to talk and some time to listen in a relationship, you’ll be able to create a bond with each other. You’ll need to make sure that you have a balance between time together and communications.

Also, a lot of people feel that they need to get physical quickly. Being together is not as meaningful as sitting together and talking. Sometimes it is the physical aspect of the relationship that will take love away from the relationship and add lust. Lust is never love. You need to make sure that there is a passion between each other, but that doesn’t mean that you have to rush into the physical aspects of love.

It is very important that you both are on the same page. This means that you’ll need to accept some ground and give some ground in the relationship. Love is based on your ability to share and to sacrifice. If one person is giving and one person is taking all the time, then there is no middle ground to build a relationship on.

As for the fights, you have to consider that they are normal. A couple that does not fight only means that there is no passion between the two. You will need to make sure that you fight fair too. You have no right to jump on a person about something so little and insignificant, but you also don’t have the right to cut a person down at all. You need to make sure that you approach the relationship with gloves on because some of the things that you say or don’t say will seriously affect the relationship.

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Finally, you both need to know how to make up appropriately. If you make up with your mate for the sake of making up, then you are a fool. It’s like saying that you accept the other person’s faults, even if they are wrong. It’s almost condescending. When you apologize, it is important that middle ground is met. You’ll need to take turns talking and also expressing each other’s feelings. Often, a person can be filled with emotion and simply not understand how to express their pain. It’s so easy to take out all your pain and frustrations on the ones you care about the most, but it’s not so easy eating your words. You should never say anything in the passion of an argument, but it’s not about who can hurt each other the most, but love is for those who care enough to want to patch the holes up.

Every relationship is flawed, but love means that you accept it all.

RECOMMENDED READING:

Finding Love Through Graphology aims at providing knowledge to find perfect love. This book will help you in:

• Understanding your personality
• Quickly finding the hell traits in partner’s handwriting
• Knowing what makes the relationship work
• Filtering out incompatible partners
• Improving one’s personality through grapho-therapy

Finding Love Through Graphology is no lover’s guide but a guide to finding the perfect love.

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