• I received this handwriting sample from a girl who attended my motivational seminar in her college. On being asked if she constantly finds people breaking her heart and leaving her alone, she burst into tears and cried her heart out. I was not surprised to see this reaction. I knew she was emotionally broken and that she would again get her heart broken. I knew all this from her single trait about trusting people blindly.

    imageHow to spot a person who trusts blindly?

    If you look at the lower loops of the handwriting sample such as in the j’s and y’s, you will notice that they are extraordinarily inflated. They are BIIGGGGG looped!

    Such people tend to trust others very easily. And as we know the world is full of cunning selfish people who break promises and hardly meet other’s expectations, so the people like her who trust them get hurt.

    What happens next?

    What happens next after a person who trusts blindly is hurt is highly subjective. Because there can be various reactions to the setback depending on a person’s personal beliefs, past experiences and future expectations. The person may become anti-social or may start isolating himself. On the contrary, they may continue to remain the same with the hope of giving another chance to another person in this world, after all everyone is different. So accurately generalizing how they will react to the heartbreak is almost impossible. It varies from person to person.

    Boon or a bane?

    Is trusting people blindly a boon or a bane for the person? Seeing the world around us and how people are ready to do anything to win over the competition, I personally would say it is a con in the personality. A person should exercise rationality while trusting people. A person who trusts blindly usually gets disappointed from his/her friends sooner or later.

    If you find this trait in yourself, contact a graphologist to get rid of this trait.

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  • Because I’m Special, I have my sense of self
    And it’s not for sale, I know who I am
    And I refuse to fail, I know who I am
    I’ve got the power to succeed, And in the spirit of faith
    I’ve got all that I need
    A blessing in disguise, as evidence of things not seen,
    Is the secret of success, in the seed of self esteem,
    Because I am, that I am, there’s no way I can let myself down,
    Hang-ups and setbacks are only stepping stones to higher ground,
    Because I am Special, I am who I am

                                                                           – Danny Queen

  • A duck walks into a bar, sits down, and says “Hey barkeep. Got any grapes?”

    The bartender says “No.”

    The duck leaves. The next day the duck walks back into the bar, sits down and asks the bartender, “Hey barkeep, got any grapes?”

    Angered by the duck the bartender walks over to the duck and says, “Look pal, this is a bar. We serve drinks, not grapes! Next time you ask for grapes, I’m going to nail your bill to the bar.”

    So the duck leaves. The next day the duck walks into the bar, sits down and asks.

    “Hey barkeep, got any nails?”

    The bartender smiles and says, “No.”

    So the duck says, “Got any grapes?”

     

  • Fortunate is the one who has learned to Admire, but not to envy.
    Good Wishes for a joyous Diwali with a plenty of Peace and Prosperity.

  • A QUESTION IN A JOB INTERVIEW

    You are driving along in your car on a wild, stormy night, it’s raining heavily, when suddenly you pass by a bus stop, and you see three people waiting for a bus:

    * An old lady who looks as if she is about to die.

    * An old friend who once saved your life.

    * The perfect partner you have been dreaming about.

    Which one would you choose to offer a ride to, knowing very well that there could only be one passenger in your car?

    This is a moral/ethical dilemma that was once actually used as part of a job application.

    He simply answered:

    “I would give the car keys to my Old friend and let him take the lady to the hospital. I would stay behind and wait for the bus with the partner of my dreams.”

    Sometimes, we gain more if we are able to give up our stubborn thought limitations. Never forget to “Think Outside of the Box.”

  • Every leader has options and choices. While some leaders hesitate to take a firm decision towards which path to follow, it is the effective leaders that not only take these important decisions but also bridges the leadership gap between them and their team. In successfully defining what steps these effective leaders follow, Paul J. Meyer along with Randy Slechta, try to quote 5 steps that they believe help in bridging the leadership gap. According to them, these five steps constitute The 5 pillars of Leadership.

    According to the authors, no one can be truly successful without crystallized thinking (leadership pillar #1) and a concise plan for achievement (leadership pillar #2). But one should not depend solely on these two pillars because without inculcating the remaining leadership pillars, the leadership bridge is bound to fall.

    The authors have explained each leadership pillar with a great detail. The book not only focuses on leadership alone but also gives glimpses of how one can improve one’s life. The brief introduction to the wheel of life and the six areas one should try to balance to assure prosperity and happiness in life proves to be very insightful.

    Overall, The 5 pillars of leadership is an advanced read and should be read by people who have trouble getting the maximum output from their team members as well as those who want to understand the concept of leadership more thoroughly.

  • There was this robbery in Guangzhou, the robber shouted to everyone: “All don’t move, money belongs to the state, life belongs to you.”

    Everyone in the bank laid down quietly.

    This is called “Mind Changing Concept –> Changing the conventional way of thinking”.
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    One lady lay on the table provocatively, the robber shouted at her “Please be civilized! This is a robbery and not a rape!”

    This is called “Being Professional –> Focus only on what you are trained to do!”
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    When the robbers got back, the younger robber (MBA trained) told the older robber (who is only primary school educated), “Big bro, let’s count how much we got”, the older robber rebutted and said, “You very stupid, so much money, how to count, tonight TV will tell us how much we robbed from the bank!”

    This is called “Experience –> nowadays experience is more important than paper qualifications!”
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    After the robbers left, the bank manager told the bank supervisor to call the police quickly. The supervisor says “Wait, wait wait, let’s put the 5 million RMB we embezzled into the amount the robbers robbed”.

    This is called “Swim with the tide –> converting an unfavorable situation to your advantage!”

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    The supervisor says “It will be good if there is a robbery every month”.

    This is called “Killing Boredom –> Happiness is most important.”
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    The next day, TV news reported that 100 million RMB was taken from the bank. The robbers counted and counted and counted, but they could only count 20 million RMB. The robbers were very angry and complained “We risked our lives and only took 20 million RMB, the bank manager took 80 million RMB with a snap of his fingers. It looks like it is better to be educated to be a thief!”

    This is called “Knowledge is worth as much as gold !”
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    The bank manager was smiling and happy because his loss in the CINOPEC shares are now covered by this robbery.

    This is called “Seizing the opportunity –> daring to take risks!”

  • The author of an international bestsellerThe Power of Positive Thinking, Dr. Norman Vincent Peale brings another exciting book for his readers titled Six Attitudes For Winners.

    The book focuses on the six attitudes which Dr. Peale feels are essential to be a winner. Some of these traits include being positive, being enthusiastic, being confident and a few others which can’t be ignored.

    Dr. Peale focuses his teachings following the guidance given in the Bible. He even shares some of the verses which a person can repeat in his daily life to tackle various problems. At the end of the book, the author has dedicated one complete chapter to handle eleven common problems which people may face. These problems include coping with difficulty, overcoming worry, dealing with loneliness, meeting sorrow, getting rid of fear and other such common problems.

    To conclude with, it would not be wrong to say that this book gives its readers an attitude check and describes the various steps he can take to overcome any obstacle he may be facing. The book is a good read. Being simple and small I would recommend it to be read by those who are in a failure trauma or find themselves stuck in a misery pit.