• What is Love and How Do I Get It?

    What is love? Everybody uses the word “love” in daily conversations. There are millions of movies and songs based on love, but do we really know what it is?

    Here are some Greek definitions of love:

    Eros: romantic love of passion, physical longing, deep intensity, and intimacy. Often initial love attracts a couple. Attracted to what it finds desirable, or beautiful–often knowing no limits and searching without satisfaction through many objects of desire.

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    Philios: characterized by sharing, companionship, and shared values, it exemplifies friendship-based and brotherly love. It is more comprehensive and less self-seeking than eros.

    Storge: family love between parent/child or between two incredibly close people. It is instinctive and does not need to be required.

    Agape: considered the purest, most comprehensive, and most mysterious form of love, which loves unconditionally. Agape dissolves our separateness from God, others, and ourselves, as instead of seeking the security and consolation of seeking to be loved, we are love. Agape is the love of altruism, of giving without asking for anything in return.

    A famous Bible verse in 1 Corinthians 13 states other qualities of love:
    Love is patient; love is kind. Love is not envious or boastful or arrogant or rude. It does not insist on its own way: it is not irritable or resentful; it does not rejoice in wrongdoing but rejoices in the truth. Love bears all things, believes all things, hopes all things, endures all things. Love never fails.

    So how do we attract love into our lives? We get love by giving love, for as we give, so do we receive. Life is a mirror and will reflect back to us what we put out. Want more love in your life? Then I invite you to demonstrate to a friend or family member real AGAPE love. Call someone up for no other reason than to tell them you love them.

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    • Understanding your personality
    • Quickly finding the hell traits in partner’s handwriting
    • Knowing what makes the relationship work
    • Filtering out incompatible partners
    • Improving one’s personality through grapho-therapy

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    LOVE IS PATIENT: Imagine for a moment what patience could do in your life? What would your home be like if everyone had great patience? What would the world be like if all people had patience with each other? What is love? Love is Patience and it begins with each of us.

    LOVE IS KIND: Kindness is directly connected to patience. Patience endures injuries and insults and kindness pays them back with good deeds and kind actions. In Greek, the word kindness means “useful.” Love is kind means we express God by being kind, by being useful, and of benefit to others.

    “Who is born of love is born of God for God is Love.”

  • How to rid your life of negative people in your life

    Something that is very hard to do is allow the negative people in your life to go. A lot of people will stay in a bad relationship that then leads to a bad marriage. It’s not the best way to live a life and it’s a way to find happiness at all. You may want to consider that there are many ways for you to tell the people around you that they need an attitude adjustment, but it’s hard to kick them to the curb when all the broken promises are over and accounted for.

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    You may simply need to make a clean break, even when it comes to those who you love the most. Keep in mind that when you are dating someone that is not the best for you; the negativity will pull you down faster than you know.

    When it comes to lovers and mates, you will notice that it can be very tricky. Sometimes you feel that they are draining and perhaps they are abusive. Keep in mind that it is not appropriate to stay in a relationship where there is any kind of abuse. A lot of people think that an abusive relationship is where one person in the relationship places physical harm on the other. This is not true. A lot of people, if not most, can say that they were in a verbally abusive relationship. Verbal abuse can be just as bad as physical abuse.

    When it comes to verbal abuse it’s hard to imagine that someone that you love can say such awful things. You’ll need to consider that your relationship doesn’t mean much to them. Also, women can be just as aggressive as a man. You will need to cut your losses as soon as the relationship turns into any kind of abuse.

    If you are worried that you simply don’t have it in you to leave the other person, then you’ll need to get the support of others. Talk to your friends and also talk to your loved ones to help you find the strength to leave. You may need to cut it off with some of your connections with the person, but it’s easier for you to walk away from someone when you have one or two people helping to support your decision emotionally.

    You will also want to think about eliminating some of the other toxins that are present in your life. Basically, you will need to get negative people away from your emotional stand, but you also need to protect yourself from the vulnerability of drugs and alcohol. You may also find that your job is draining. If you are having any type of issues that seem to be bringing you down, then you’ll need to cut all ties. However, when it comes to the relationships of loved ones, you may need others to help support your decision and also help back you up.

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    You’ll need to keep in mind that there is a lot of support from friends and family that love you. If you seem to be losing more than you bargained for, keep in mind that the friendships that are lost while trying to end a relationship will rekindle if they are true friends.

    This may be the worst thing that you have to do, but eventually, you will get out of the negative situation and your life will improve. Not only will you be able to improve the way that you see yourself, but the negative people and aspects of your life will no longer hold you back from the things that make you happy.

  • How to rid your life of negative thoughts

    There are a lot of people who tend to be more negative than positive. This may have to do with some of the low self-esteem issues that they have, but it can also have many underlying issues too. A lot of people who are negative, feel that they got the short end of the stick in life, but it’s simply not true.

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    If you are a negative person then you will only attract negativity. You’ll need to consider that your attitude predicts the type of life that you have. You’ll need to keep in mind that there are going to be highs and lows in your life. Everyone has both good times and bad times, but it is the fact that some people don’t allow the negatives to affect them that makes a difference. You’ll need to rid yourself of the negative thoughts and negative energy in order to make something positive of your life.

    The first thing that you’ll need to do in order to get rid of the negative thoughts is to look at yourself. You’ll need to dig down deep for this one. You should come up with a list of things that you see about yourself. If you list a negative quality then you’ll need to list a positive aspect. Soon, you’ll notice that your positive list will continue to grow. It’s very important that you think about things like your abilities and also your personality traits. Not only are you are great at puzzles, but you are a warm and friendly person. This is just one of the many examples that can be used.

    Also, if you truly want to make a difference in the way that you see yourself, then you’ll need to change your negative ways. A few ideas include something called a negative jar. If you think or say something that is negative, then you’ll need to place some amount of money into the jar. You will also find that for every positive day that you have you take something out of the positive jar (preferably a jelly bean, piece of candy, or something inexpensive). This will help you to wipe out the negative energy.

    You’ll also find that there are a lot of ways that you can replace your negative thoughts and energies with positive ones. You’ll notice that not only will you be able to improve your health with things like meditation and message, but you’ll also be able to release some of your negative energy and replace it with positive energy. You may want to look further into some of the messages that you can take and also learn more about a yoga or meditation class that you can join.

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    Keep in mind that you will want to keep yourself as positive as possible. You will need to keep your body processing in a healthy manner too. This is a great time to mention that you’ll need to take good care of your health by getting a good night’s sleep and also eating well and exercising regularly. You will notice that taking care of yourself is not all just about sleeping well, eating healthy, and enforcing exercise time, but you will also want to get a yearly checkup to keep your body in line.

    Finally, you’ll also want to consider what is best for you. Instead of allowing yourself to get hung up on the things that are best for you, you may want to consider some of your own expectations. You’ll want to make sure that you concentrate on your needs and wants rather than what others think you need or want.

  • Why Re-invent the Light bulb?

    Have you ever had a problem with a burned light? Thanks to the effort of Thomas Edison we no longer need to invent the light bulb. We just go to the store or our cupboard and pull one out and screw it in. Voila! Light!

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    I am sure you realize that it took Thomas Edison many, many tries before he perfected the light bulb. Someone asked him one day if he grew discouraged by his failures. He answered, “I haven’t failed, I’ve discovered one more way how not to make a light bulb”.

    You see, there is no such thing as failure, there are only results. Someone once said that the definition of Insanity is to do something over and over again and get the same results.

    In order for our life to work properly, we need to make some changes to the things we are doing.

    Just like light can burn out, so can we. Life can become dark and depressing and we feel there is no light, no hope in sight. It’s a fairly dismal picture for sure.

    Let me shine some light on this situation (pun intended). When we are feeling so low and deep in the pits, this is when we need light to see our way through. Some of us are lucky enough to have some light on hand, others must go out and retrieve it.

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    Many people try and invent light for themselves by thinking positive thoughts but it only takes them so far. It only gives so much light. There is more light available but people are at a quandary as to how to obtain it.

    We don’t have to be like Thomas Edison and keep looking at the problem and thinking of ways to solve them.

    For every problem, there is a Solution.

    How do we find the solution? We can try, as we said, to try and figure it out by ourselves, or we can find someone who has already surpassed this obstacle and do what they did.

    There are many books on the market today that can help us to understand how to overcome the obstacles in our lives. We need to read and learn from the failures of other people. They have been through it all before and can help to teach us how to go through it now. There have been great thinkers in our history and we are fortunate enough to have their trail to follow.

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    We all need more light in our life. Sometimes we can’t see the light at the end of the tunnel but there is always hope and help.

    Learn how others have overcome their challenges and keep that education inside of you so that when you are feeling low and life looks dim, you can pull out those resources to help you light up your life again.

    Don’t try to re-invent the light bulb, Learn how to carry the light within yourselves.

  • Yes, You Can!

    If you are an entrepreneur, you know that your success cannot depend on the opinions of others. Like the wind, opinions change…like the weather, opinions change frequently. To succeed at any endeavor, you must stay the course…no matter what the cost! Here are some surefire tips to help you on your journey.

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    1. Avoid Negativity. Negative people are all around us. They can include our loved ones as well as a dear friend. Most often, it is the opinions of total strangers that breed the most negativity as if someone who doesn’t know or understand you is able to voice a reasonably thought out opinion about you.

    No, you shouldn’t avoid those who are close to you, rather there are areas of conversation that are less profitable. Accept criticism constructively, but steer the conversation away from nonstop negative banter. Negativity will grow on you unless you take control.

    2. Build Yourself Up. No, I do not mean for you to puff yourself up with pride, rather you can be your best source of encouragement by encouraging yourself. How can you do this? Read the testimonies of other entrepreneurs/succeeders who have gone before you. Current day success stories of people who have gone from “rags to riches” [or from simple means to great influence] include personalities like Oprah Winfrey, Martha Stewart, and Bill Gates. Yesterday’s success stories are numerous and include Thomas Edison, Harry S. Truman, and Abraham Lincoln.

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    3. Go Back to Square One. Should you find yourself wavering, recall those things that encouraged you to take your “step of faith” in the first place. Recall what it takes to succeed: discipline, self-confidence, independence, hard work, sacrifice, etc. Look forward to the anticipated results: a good income, independence, a job you love, etc. Finally, remember the worst job you ever worked…imagine yourself working there again. Blah! Use whatever it takes to motivate you.

    So, toss off the negative thoughts and embrace that which is uplifting, inspiring, encouraging, warm, friendly, and helpful. You are on track to achieving great things as long as you do not let yourself become derailed by the negative words of others.

  • Your Self Esteem

    When you’re learning about something new, it’s easy to feel overwhelmed by the sheer amount of relevant information available. This informative article should help you focus on the central points.

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    So how do you stay calm, composed, and maintain self-esteem in a tough environment? Here are some tips you may consider as a starter guide to self-improvement.

    Imagine yourself as a Dart Board. Everything and everyone else around you may become Dart Pins, at one point or another. These dart pins will destroy your self-esteem and pull you down in ways you won’t even remember. Don’t let them destroy you, or get the best of you. So which dart pins should you avoid?

    Dart Pin #1 : Negative Work Environment
    Beware of “dog eat dog” theory where everyone else is fighting just to get ahead. This is where non-appreciative people usually thrive. No one will appreciate your contributions even if you miss lunch and dinner, and stay up late. Most of the time you get to work too much without getting help from people concerned. Stay out of this, it will ruin your self-esteem. Competition is at stake anywhere. Be healthy enough to compete, but in a healthy competition that is.

    Dart Pin #2: Other People’s Behavior
    Bulldozers, brown nosers, gossipmongers, whiners, backstabbers, snipers, people walking wounded, controllers, naggers, complainers, exploders, patronizers, sluffers… all these kinds of people will pose bad vibes for your self-esteem, as well as to your self-improvement scheme.

    Dart Pin #3: Changing Environment
    You can’t be a green bug on a brown field. Changes challenge our paradigms. It tests our flexibility, adaptability and alters the way we think. Changes will make life difficult for awhile, it may cause stress but it will help us find ways to improve our selves. Change will be there forever, we must be susceptible to it.

    Truthfully, the only difference between you and Self esteem experts is time. If you’ll invest a little more time in reading, you’ll be that much nearer to expert status when it comes to Self esteem.

    Dart Pin #4: Past Experience
    It’s okay to cry and say “ouch!” when we experience pain. But don’t let pain transform itself into fear. It might grab you by the tail and swing you around. Treat each failure and mistake as a lesson.

    Dart Pin #5: Negative World View
    Look at what you’re looking at. Don’t wrap yourself up with all the negativities of the world. In building self esteem, we must learn how to make the best out of worst situations.

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    Dart Pin #6: Determination Theory
    The way you are and your behavioral traits is said to be a mixed end product of your inherited traits (genetics), your upbringing (psychic), and your environmental surroundings such as your spouse, the company, the economy or your circle of friends. You have your own identity. If your father is a failure, it doesn’t mean you have to be a failure too. Learn from other people’s experience, so you’ll never have to encounter the same mistakes.

    Sometimes, you may want to wonder if some people are born leaders or positive thinkers. NO. Being positive, and staying positive is a choice. Building self esteem and drawing lines for self improvement is a choice, not a rule or a talent. God wouldn’t come down from heaven and tell you – “George, you may now have the permission to build self esteem and improve your self.”

    In life, its hard to stay tough specially when things and people around you keep pulling you down. When we get to the battle field, we should choose the right luggage to bring and armors to use, and pick those that are bullet proof. Life’s options give us arrays of more options. Along the battle, we will get hit and bruised. And wearing a bullet proof armor ideally means ‘self change’. The kind of change which comes from within. Voluntarily. Armor or Self Change changes 3 things: our attitude, our behavior and our way of thinking.

    Building self esteem will eventually lead to self improvement if we start to become responsible for who we are, what we have and what we do. Its like a flame that should gradually spread like a brush fire from inside and out. When we develop self esteem, we take control of our mission, values and discipline. Self esteem brings about self improvement, true assessment, and determination. So how do you start putting up the building blocks of self esteem? Be positive. Be contented and happy. Be appreciative. Never miss an opportunity to compliment. A positive way of living will help you build self esteem, your starter guide to self improvement.

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    There’s a lot to understand about Self esteem. We were able to provide you with some of the facts above, but there is still plenty more to write about in subsequent articles.

  • REVIEW SPOTLIGHT

    Finding Love Through Graphology aims at providing knowledge to find perfect love. This book will help you in:

    • Understanding your personality
    • Quickly finding the hell traits in partner’s handwriting
    • Knowing what makes the relationship work
    • Filtering out incompatible partners
    • Improving one’s personality through grapho-therapy

    Finding Love Through Graphology is no lover’s guide but a guide to finding the perfect love.

  • You Are The Actor or Actress Of Your Own Story

    Many thinkers and writers, both past and present, have described human beings in this world as actors and actresses on a big stage, this life, to one great play. Ask yourself, what role are you playing? Who’s writing your script? Are you acting out your own story? Or are you simply going through the motions in someone else’s play?

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    We each have a set of ideas or beliefs about ourselves that define us as a central character in a “story” that we’re living out. All of the elements of the story have been passed down as part of our culture or upbringing, taught or ingrained, or simply fabricated in our own minds. We then go about enacting our stories as if they were true.

    The thing is, most of us don’t even realize that we’re enacting a story, much less someone else’s story. Because of this, we’re completely at the mercy of the story and its writer, how it unfolds, how we react to certain events, and the eventual course our life takes.

    If we don’t take the time to construct our own story, we’ll continue enacting our current one, even if it isn’t working for us and even if someone else is holding the pen, or typing the keys.

    So how can you discover the story you’re enacting and decide if it’s time to create your own spin-off? Here are some pointers:

    1. Assume you are in fact enacting a story. Uncover the elements of your story. Be a detective, hunting for clues. Look at all your behaviors and describe them piece by piece, until the “whole” story emerges.
    2. Assess your story. Are you happy with it? What would you change, remove, or add to this story to make it more satisfying? Re-write your story – become the author of the grandest story you can envision – a story that truly inspires.
    3. Share your new story with important people in your life. Talk about your specific role in the story and why it appeals to you. The more you talk about your new story, the more it will become a part of you.
    4. Commit to living your new role in some way. Make at least one change that is in alignment with the new story.

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    Finally, explore how your new story fits into the bigger story of your family, organization, corporation, country, and the world. What contribution can your new individual story make to the bigger story?

    Remember, you are the author and you can write your own story any way you wish. And lastly, your time is limited. So do not waste it. Spend it wisely!

  • You CAN Shift Your Reality to Include More of What You Want

    Do you know that you are emitting signals that the universe responds to? It’s like we’re all emitting radio signals that go out into the universe and match us up with anything on the same wavelength, bringing to us the circumstances and events which make up our lives.

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    The signals you emit are made up of your thoughts, beliefs, and the emotions that these create within you. Your experience tends to match what you’ve got your focus upon.

    You do have the power to affect your experiences by paying attention to what you focus upon. This is where your power is. If you are focused upon the negative aspects of your experience, you will create more of the same, which you then focus on and create more of, and so on in a vicious cycle. Fortunately, this works the other way around too! If you choose to focus on the positive aspects of any experience, you will create more positive aspects you can then focus on, and continue bringing more positive experiences into your life. Even if you can only find one positive aspect to focus on in a situation that has many more negative aspects, and you keep choosing to keep your focus on the one positive part, you will soon see improvement in that situation that will give you more that’s positive to focus on. It’s a gradual, continual process. And it works!

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    • Take responsibility for your life
    • Be unstoppable on the face of failure
    • Turn self-defeating thoughts around
    • Change your outlook on life
    • Motivate anyone to do anything

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    Just because something is how it is, does not mean it has to stay that way! Just because you’ve had a lot of it in the past, does not mean you’re doomed to have more of it in the future! If you don’t like it, know that you do have the power to change it. And if you do like it, know that you can create more of it, if you wish to.

    Gradually shifting your perception to include more of what you do like, opens the flow so more like it can come to you.

    Over the last few years, I have found many incredibly helpful resources to help anyone along the path to greater joy. I’ve set up the handwriting analysis service to share these resources with others.

    Wishing you increased satisfaction and more joy!