• Where is Happiness?

    Do you move through life feeling every day is the same? Like some repeated pattern that goes on and on? For some people, there’s nothing new to do under the sun, and nowhere to go. Everything is just boring, boring, boring. They work so hard to earn enough money to play, but yet their playtime passes so fast. Suffer five days, enjoy two days. Sometimes, to break the monotony, they seek thrill through intoxicants (alcohol, smoke), sex, and even drugs. For these temporary pleasures, it feels exciting while it’s happening, but once it’s over, the same pattern of meaninglessness sets in, and they’re left thinking, “When can I get the next high?”

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    Perhaps you will recognize this scene… Two old men are sitting on a bus. As the bus passes by the red-light district, one old man says to the other, “Hey… aren’t you going to see the chickens (prostitute) today?” The other man raises an eyebrow… a spark in his wrinkled eyes, “Yes, yes, I will be going this afternoon!” The first old man smirks, and says, “You didn’t even bring your medicine, how can you DO IT?”

    For some people, their lust is so strong, that they borrow money from family and friends, just to visit brothels. You will see this pattern in addicts. Drug addicts, sex addicts, alcohol addicts. They’re always looking for the greater thrill and the next high, and that’s what sets their life on a downward spiral. They waste their time, energy, and money, instead of using it to build success.

    For life to have zest, everyone needs that natural feeling of drive, anticipation, and excitement. When one does not know how to get it naturally, one may resort to vices to stimulate that sense of being fully alive, desperately trying to bring some meaning into life. But you see, happiness is within you… If you can’t satisfy your wants, then the other way to happiness is to release them. Let go of that which you must have. Shakyamuni Buddha said that, “All desire leads to suffering…” Suffering because you crave what you do not have. And let me ask you this: Is this yearning self-created? Or something imposed on you by the outside world? Perhaps it’s the outside world’s fault because other people keep flaunting their luxuries and exotic experiences. But surely, we create this yearning within ourselves. It is within our power to control it, or release it altogether.

    Lord Richard Layard, Professor from the London School of Economics, a leading happiness researcher, says, “Happiness is a balance between your expectations and your attainments. One way is to get what you want. The other, is liking what you get.”

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    Many of our desires are misplaced. We think getting them will bring us happiness, but that is an illusion. These misplaced desires are nothing more than temporary pleasures. You don’t need to satisfy your desires to be happy; you need only release them. Do you need the attention of the opposite sex? No, as you get older, your body parts will sag, and the opposite sex will pay less attention to you. Must you get laid to be happy? No, as you age, your sex hormones will lessen, and so will your desire to mate. Must you wait till you have a million bucks? Nope. Historical and worldwide research shows that above US$15,000 a year, higher income is no guarantee of greater happiness.

    The people who feel good everyday, without resorting to vices, have one mental characteristic in common. They have a dream, and they know what they want to achieve in life. This sense of purpose drives them; gives meaning to their existence. They have discovered their soul’s calling, and are living life to the fullest by following it. This is different from those who are ‘party animals’, “living life to the fullest” by drowning in deafening music, and shaking till the sun rises… That’s not living, that’s dying.

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    If you want to find true meaning and happiness in life, then you’ve got to uncover your life’s purpose. For each of us has a unique destiny. A path made especially for you to walk on this journey through life. Follow it, and you arrive in paradise. Ignore it, and you continue to wander… wasting time, and life itself.

    1. You need to know what you’re made of. Your talents, strengths, and abilities.
    2. Craft a vision for yourself, and visualize that dream in your mind.
    3. Work out a plan that sets your goals and decides what actions you must take to achieve them.
    4. Tell your closest friends about it, and commit yourself to taking five of the planned actions everyday to build your dream.

    When you see that your actions are creating results, it will be a natural source of excitement and inspiration. Instead of spending time, energy, and money on vices, you invest it in creating an upward spiral of success. By releasing your desire for temporary pleasures, you kick your bad habit out the door. By choosing to live your purpose and answer your soul’s calling, you break free from the chains of monotony, and find truth, meaning, and happiness in life.

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  • Changes in Self Determination

    Are you one of those people that are always on your toes and focusing on your future? Are you one of the people in the world that sees a half-full glass, and an accident waiting to happen? If so then you need to take some lessons in self-determination and start making some positive changes. We all must take responsibility for our failures, unhappiness, and so to a large degree.

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    The mystery of developing self-determination and making productive changes in your life rests within you. By looking inside you, into your mind, you can raise your level of self-awareness, which builds strength of mind. When you become conscious of the uncertainties and fears that lay concealed inside of your mind, you can take positive steps to reframe your thinking.

    Once you begin to recognize the unconstructive factors that are holding you back from becoming successful, you can make productive changes and move to the next step. Once you know what is holding you back, you will start to recognize ways to make changes to grow into self-determination. Knowing yourself well is the first step to retraining your mind to think positively. As soon as you become aware of the unconstructiveness that lies contained by your own mind you can see what next step you must take to accomplish your goal. One of the best processes to develop determination is self-exploration; you can discover secrets inside of you and see what changes you have to make. Once you see what needs to take place, you must make a decision to change and follow it through.

    Not one person can read you better than yourself. Only you can adjust your negative thinking and create a positive attitude. To make constructive changes in your life, you have to become responsive to the motives of the negative thoughts, feelings, and emotions that are standing in your way. As you strive in the direction of positive and self-determination, you may want to employ some sort of guidebook that can help you set goals and effort toward completing them.

    Writing out your goals is a great method that will assist you with openly seeing what you need to change and what you need to complete. The act of putting your goals down in writing can be prevailing implements for increasing self-determination while building your self-awareness. As you make progress, the act of being able to check goals off your list will reinforce the positive changes you are making. Online you will find some excellent self-help pamphlets and articles that can help to encourage and motivate you.

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    Inspiring music can help you reduce stress while creating positive energy. The latest relaxation melodies are available online as well. We all have many alternatives available when it comes to making positive adjustments. Start with seeking answers inside of you. Next, look to external guides that can help you cope with the stress and unconstructiveness that stands amid you and your self-determination.

    Change is something that helps us to modify our behaviors, thinking, etc, which helps us to see the bigger picture. Change can help us develop new ideas. New ideas of course can help you find the way to work on building self-determination. If you lack this strength of mind now is the time to get started with finding your way to peace and tranquility. Go online and do some research. You have many resources available.

    Peace of mind is an effort behind the steps you take toward creating a better life for you. Take the road and get to stepping into self-determination. Learn more about behaviors to help you grow.

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  • The Art of Self Improvement

    There’s no doubt about it: Self Improvement is big business. No matter where we look we seem to see men attired in business suits and fancy haircuts. Sporting dinky little ear-piece microphones, they speak to us as though we were attending the annual general meeting of their multi-national self-development business which, I suppose, isn’t that far from the truth. They speak to us in sound-bites; “I’m gonna show you how…”, “you just need to follow my plan: no thought required; just follow the plan”. Success and winning, they preach to the audience, are a sure thing.

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    But is self-development a sure thing? If like me, you believe self-development is a life journey that is never completed, you know that the only sure thing is that the search for self-development is far from being a sure thing. The journey will entail more failures than successes, more loss than gain, and more self-doubt than we think we can endure. The only way to improve one’s self is to challenge the habits and assumptions we have gathered along the way. To go out on a limb with no guarantee of finding what we want takes courage. No ‘success plan’ would contemplate such a course of action!

    So, if we can’t get succor from the self-improvement ‘gurus’, who can we turn to?

    The answer, I believe, is to look to the people who have always explored every single aspect of the human condition. They did not always find the answer, but they all had courage. They are, of course, the world’s artists.

    How can a painting help us toward our goal of self-improvement you might ask? Well, some paintings help to bring serenity and a feeling of inner peace; I feel this whenever I look at an Impressionist painting, especially paintings by Berthe Morisot. She was never recognized as a great artist during her lifetime; she was relegated to the category of “feminine” artists because of her usual subject matter — women, children, and domestic scenes. Her paintings are intensely intimate. She is an example of someone who never gave up on pursuing what she thought was worthwhile despite being largely ignored.

    Jackson Pollock instills different but equally powerful feelings. I used to believe all modern artists “just throw a bit of paint on a canvas and call it art”. My preconceptions were swept away when I was lucky enough to attend an exhibition devoted to his work. His paintings were beautiful and challenged the way I look at a painting. The search for your inner self is all about challenging your currently held notions.

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    Music is probably the easiest of the arts for us to accept as an aid toward our search for self-development. How often does a certain piece of music make us feel happy, relaxed, romantic, hopeful, fulfilled? You name it, music hits all the buttons. My favorite music is anything by Beethoven. His music makes me feel all of the aforementioned. He was a man who accepted nothing less than perfection. He sorts redemption through his music. Ultimately, he didn’t find it and he spent much of his life feeling alone. But his courage of conviction made his life, and countless others, a better thing. His last words were “Applaud, my friends, the comedy is over.”

    Perhaps our greatest inspiration comes from writers. They have helped me, and millions of others, to find the inner self. Life would be a much poorer experience without our great writers. I won’t name all the writers that have inspired me; there are too many. But if there was one thing I would urge you to do, it is to read. If you’re not sure who to read then go to a library and ask! Tell the librarian what it is that you want to experience, feel or learn when you read a book. They’ll help you; don’t let shyness defeat you. If you can’t get to a library then join a reading club on the internet. The one thing I have found is that people, who love to read, love to help others to read books.

    So, forget about buying into that testosterone, succeed-at-all-costs seminars, ebooks, and DVDs. Go and look at a painting; or lie on the sofa and listen to music, maybe dance wildly to it, cry with it, make love in time to it; or curl up and read a book that will take you where you never thought possible.

    You may not get to where you wished, but Art will accompany you every single step of the way.

  • Develop A Belief System That Works For You

    It is interesting to note that most of society is free. There is a percentage of the populous that is incarcerated for crimes against society. So too, are there people who live in political cultures that do not value the freedom of its’ people. Nevertheless, the majority of the people in the world live in relative freedom. They can choose whom they marry, what they do for a living, and where they live. Most societies allow their people to move around freely without restraint. As long as an individual is obeying the laws, that person has wide latitude in conduct.

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    The freedoms offered by governments are physical freedoms that all its’ law-abiding members enjoy. However, many operate in a “prison-like” atmosphere regardless of what they are given. This prison does not exist on the material plane. Rather, it is a creation of the mind. It is manufactured from an individual’s belief system. These beliefs become people’s jailers.

    Most will tell you that they can think for themselves. To suggest that they are incapable of creating their own ideas is met with an overwhelming attitude to the contrary. All their success, experiences, and intelligence give a sense of independence. They mistakenly believe that their belief systems are of their own making. Unfortunately for them, it is not.

    A fundamental concept to creating the life that you desire is to create a belief system that works for you. Contrary to what most think, our beliefs systems are shaped by the influences around us. Teachers, parents, friends, co-workers, and institutions all have input into the beliefs that we live by. Have you ever noticed how children’s ideas often reflect those of their parents? This is so common that political organizations poll school children during Presidential elections because they accurately reflect the sentiment of the adults.

    The governments of the world are masters at shaping the belief system of its’ people. Through the use of propaganda, public opinion is swayed based upon the desires of those in power. This is often done in the name of nationalism. A group of people is established as a threat to society. Events are shown to validate this viewpoint while creating the emotional dislike towards that group. Thus, the government is free to act as it sees fit with the full support of its people. Unfortunately, most people do not have firsthand experience to form a solid conclusion. Of course, they will defend their belief even though that is not certain where it came from.

    It is common for people and organizations to manipulate others’ beliefs for the sake of control. The government is one example. Some religions throughout history have acted in a similar manner. They used the threat of an angry Deity and eternal damnation to control the masses. There were numerous instances where the Church of England was the most powerful organization in Europe. With a following that is under control, it is much easier to maintain influence. Naturally, there are many denominations where this is not the case. So, too, are there many people whose lives are enhanced by their religious affiliation. Unfortunately, this is not true in all instances.

    The key to belief systems is creating one that works for you. As an adult, you have the freedom to believe anything that you desire. Spending time questioning where some of your beliefs came from is healthy. It is also effective to determine whether they still work for you. If they assist you in being happy, joyous, and free, then they are worthwhile. However, when they instill pain, perhaps it is time to rethink them.

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    Ironically, the beliefs that seem to cause the most chaos in people’s lives come from those who love us the most. Many individuals suffer from psychological disorders due to the influences of their parents. Things such as low self-esteem, abandonment, and sexual issues all come from our upbringing. Typically, one who suffers from any of these was made to feel guilty and shameful. Their worth was shown to be tied to their performance which never was good enough. Mistakes were not forgiven but something to be used as a weapon to make the other feel worse. All this was done as a form of control.

    Leap forward 20 years and you find that a person who grew up in this atmosphere often still carries these beliefs. Even though recent experiences will prove to the contrary, the individual still hears the words of the parent. It affects the relationships with friends, lovers, coworkers, and oneself. Without some help, the person is often incapable of healthy interaction with others. There is a degree of sickness in all that is done. Thus, the individual turns to other things to fill that void that exists whether it is drugs, alcohol, sex, or food. However, if the belief system was viewed as insane, the person might be apt to change it. Simply altering a few of the basic beliefs one holds regarding oneself miraculously changes life.

    The more that we can accept that it is likely that what we believe came from others, the better our chances are of attaining freedom. There are many things that were taught to us by others growing up which serve us well. This is especially true if we were raised in a loving home. However, society being as selfish as it is, there is much that stands in our way of happiness. Analyzing our belief system gets to the root of what motivates us. A system that contains a great deal of fear will cause one to often act out of that fear. The opposite is also true. To create ‘our’ life begins with creating ‘our’ own belief system.

  • Be Persuasive When You Sell

    When you are selling your products to clients, you don’t want to be pushy about it, you want to be persuasive.

    Have you ever been around a salesperson who seems to have everything going for him?

    He has no problem talking to people, people like him, he seems to meet all of his sales goals so effortlessly.

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    This is not because he is lucky, or he was born with a natural gift when it came to selling. It is because he took the time and effort to make sure he went into the field well trained with the appropriate sales skills and product knowledge to make his sales seem as though they come without any effort.

    This salesperson, through hard work and sales training, has given himself the power of persuasion because he has the ability to find out what it is that his customers need.

    When a salesperson is being pushy with their product, it is a turn-off to the customer. The last thing a customer wants is somebody they just met up in their face who won’t stop talking. Pushy salespeople come off rude, unprofessional, and unknowledgeable.

    From a customer’s point of view, a pushy salesperson comes off as someone who just arrived from a one-day sales training course on one particular product. Who is then sent out into the world to sell that product to anyone that will listen?

    Most consumers can see right through this.

    Persuasion takes subtlety. In fact, it is much easier to persuade someone to buy your product than to actually sell it.

    Persuasion involves getting your customer to “buy-in” to your product or to see things from your point of view.

    You must first get to know your customer. Take some time to ask a few personal questions. Such as where they live, what their occupation is, do they have any pets, etc.

    People love to talk about themselves, so ask questions.

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    Once you get to know your customer, find out what their needs are. You can then match up your products to their needs.

    Explain the benefits of your product, and give them a visual in their mind of themselves using your product. If you are selling baseball bats, give them the vision of using the bat to hit a home run in the bottom of the ninth to win the ball game.

    Don’t do all the talking, listen to your customer. Listening is perhaps one of the most important sales skills you can possess. You can find out so much about your customer just by listening.

    To persuade your customer to buy your product is to find a common ground with your customer. Smile, be courteous, answer their questions, learn what their needs are, listen to their concerns, and try to alleviate them.

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    Once you have established what their needs are, tell them about the products you have that could satisfy their needs. Remember, don’t sell the product, tell them about the product, and what it can do for them.

    Don’t think of it as selling, think of it as a normal conversation that you would have with one of your friends. Your sales will become more enjoyable, and they will also increase. Good luck.

  • The Culture of Excess

    We live in a society of gadgets and gizmos, toys and more toys, of things that evoke feelings of luxury, style, and class. This is available to almost everyone, not just a privileged few. This is the 21st century.

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    No other time of the year is it more prevalent, conspicuous and aggressively promoted than during the Christmas season.

    Thanks to advances in technology, the airwaves, the print, and electronic media are flooded with advertisements that appeal to society in general, to people from all walks of life.

    Open any newspaper or magazine and indulge yourself with an endless advertisement, appealing, titillating, and surely tempting. You can’t miss it, it’s almost on every page and glares you in the face.

    Turn on the computer and you can access more goods and services at the click of a mouse. Add to this endless ads and banners.

    The young generation is brought up in this era of consumerism. They are introduced to a high-maintenance lifestyle at a very young age. Gone are the days when shopping for children was fun. A time when it did not take much to make their young hearts happy. Life was simpler.

    Times have surely changed. The trappings of the good life are no longer the sole domain of the wealthy. Comfort, travel, wheels, homes, luxury, name it, it is within the reach of anyone who is willing to pay the price. It is no longer just a dream.

    This is just the beginning of the conspicuous consumption of our society. In the name of convenience, there are more and more gadgets for the home introduced faster than one can pay off existing debt. However, this is not a deterrent.

    It is no longer a matter of meeting a need, the “want” list gets longer and longer. Each member of a family has their own want list.

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    Technology is wonderful; it allows man to take great strides, faster and more accurately than our forbears. Technology makes it possible for a man to explore space, the depths of the ocean, the untrodden parts of this earth. Through technology, man has made incredible advances in science, communication, and the medical field. Technology is of great benefit to mankind.

    It is very much a part of our daily lives. There is a downside- man wants more of the convenience that comes with it. It fuels the imagination of both producers and consumers. It stimulates the need to want more. It encourages the desire to pamper oneself, and loved ones with more goods.

    Having more than what they need promotes a sense of living the good life. For every season, for every occasion, the market offers boundless ideas and an endless flow of material goods. Beware, quality is slipping down too fast, as production and advertisement are cranked up higher, some of the quality is compromised.

    The convenience that technology offers is hard to ignore. How did we manage before, when most of the chores were done manually? Imagine the time spent to get anything done?

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    Take a look around the house, push a button to get laundry or the dishes done. Press another button to start the car before you open the door. Set a timer for your coffeemaker, for your lights to come on at a desired time, your radio to wake you up. Wouldn’t you be lost without that remote control?

    What about the other gadgets and tools for the handyman? Look at the other things around the house to make living more convenient and definitely add to that feeling of comfort and luxury.

    There’s more. Communication is revolutionized. Each member of the family has to be wired. Watch the ads, imagine the convenience of having extra gadgets for each family member just for so much a month. Add to this the paraphernalia that goes with it, some of which are good to have but not a necessity. But does it matter? It becomes a must-have.

    The quest for material goods is at excessive proportions. It hits the very core of a person. Some can only measure success relative to their material possessions. Some identify their self-worth with material acquisitions. The words status and prestige are medals they wear proudly. Rightly so, if it makes them happy.

    How much of these goods are on credit? How many sleepless nights are spent doing endless calculations and adjustments? Is there room for a quiet time that comes at no cost? Or do they experience that feeling of emptiness amid comfortable surroundings?

    Do this culture of excess spell happiness and peace?

  • The Relationship Factor

    You may have heard of someone saying that they are completely happy on their own and all by themselves.

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    Although this isn’t what appeals to me, I can understand why some people would think this; the only relationship they have is with themselves and it’s hard to mess up a relationship with yourself. It’s hard to have much satisfaction from that kind of relationship too.

    Relationships with others are what make the world go around because it is a thermometer of how we “relate” to others. Friends can be just like us, or just the opposite of us, but it is how we relate to them that feeds our souls.

    We can choose to put effort into a relationship or choose to walk away, but each of us needs other people around us to make us feel a part of a bigger thing.

    The world is full of other people. We can decide to make friends with some of them and enhance our lives, or we can choose to remain silent in the elevator or not speak to the person at the next table at Starbucks.

    We can stay in our own little world, or we can expand it to include others, who might enrich us with their knowledge and personalities. I can open the door, or I can keep it closed.

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    I can choose to take what my marriage is giving me or I can put more into it and reap the rewards. I can be lazy and think only about what this relationship means to me, or I can think about how much better it could
    be if I put more effort into making sure my spouse gets as much as s/he gives.

    You do get back more than you give to relationships and relationships will reward you for years in many, many ways. Nurture those relationships that you need to keep you happy!