• How To Overcome Nervousness When You Speak In Public

    Even if the speech you have is already prepared and you know everything about it, public speaking can be difficult. Many people are very nervous when they speak in public. Here are some tips for you to overcome your nervous feelings when you speak in front of many people.

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    Preparing your presentation

    1. Center on yourself. Try practicing standing properly – with your feet under the hips directly. This position is the best and most stable for speaking in public. Rehearse this position with somebody or in front of your mirror.
    2. Your shoulders should be relaxed. The muscles in the shoulders support directly your larynx, so it has a fast effect on your voice. Shoulders should be rolled out.
    3. Warming up the voice. You should treat all your presentations as if they were performances. Prepare yourself by rehearsing. Deeply breathe into the bottom part of the lungs. You feel your rib cage is expanding slightly higher than the navel. You should thrice sigh. Sighing is your signal to the body that everything is okay and it is just perfect to relax. Then make a siren sound, starting from a high note to a lower note at the bottom part of the voice range you have. With enough practice, you will be able to find the low note connecting to the place located right above the navel. This is the natural voice pitch that you have.

    Managing meeting skills

    1. Directing your voice. Every time you speak, imagine that each word you say is like a beam of laser traveling from your mouth to the end person listening to you. Practice this outlook to reach to many people at the same time.
    2. Directing your thoughts. Pay attention to your thoughts, especially their beginnings and endings. Make your communication complete and fully rounded.
    3. Diction and articulation. Convey clearly your message.

    During questions

    1. Give yourself time and space in breathing.
    2. Before answering, slightly breathe out first. When you are flustered or nervous, you usually take in more additional air than you need, and you hold onto that air while you try to think. However, this is not helping you. Usually, this method causes you to panic. Remove this habit by breathing air first before you speak, allowing you to relax and thoughts to come in clearly and more logically.
  • Secret Information

    Secret information? Okay, probably not much remains truly hidden or forbidden anymore, but there are little secrets about how things work. Salesmen, politicians, and others learn and use subtle techniques to influence you. “Lucky people” use little-known tricks to get that way. Here are some examples.

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    Controlling Through Words

    There is a classic joke, “Have you stopped beating your wife?” It is difficult to answer without incriminating yourself. This technique of the implicit premise is used by politicians for more than jokes. Get everyone to argue about how to do something, for example, like win the “war” on drugs, and nobody questions if it should even be done. Implicit premises are a powerful method of control. Get in the habit of recognizing the premises hidden in political debate.

    Another way to influence people is to control language. Since social security payments don’t come from actual investments, unless you call the government lending itself money “investing”, social security isn’t a “retirement fund.” Calling it that, however, makes it seem safer and more acceptable than what it is: welfare. You can see how the words used control the debate.

    Our words matter. Could it be difficult politically to spend millions on “human shredder” bombs? Maybe that’s why they are called “daisy cutters.” Start paying attention, and you’ll see how words are being used to influence you.

    Hypnotic Sales Techniques

    Read the following sales pitch:

    “Does speaking before a crowd make you nervous? What if it was easy? Imagine standing there in front of a crowd, knowing exactly what to say to make them love you. Wouldn’t that feel wonderful? Just apply our simple methods, and you will have that power. Use the form below to ORDER RIGHT NOW.”

    It starts by getting you to say yes, which is habit forming. It hints at the possibility of a solution. The word “Imagine,” in line three, gets you doing just that. Line four suggests positive emotion and gets another yes. “And” in line five infers cause and effect, that you’ll have the power BECAUSE you used their product. The last line directs you with “Use the form below.” The “order right now” is called an “embedded command,” because putting it in capitals influences you without you noticing consciously.

    When I learned dozens of these techniques, I used them to re-write the sign-up page for one of my newsletters, and I got four times as many subscribers from the same traffic. Secret information or not, it is powerful stuff.

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    More Secret Information

    “Lucky people” create the right conditions for “luck,” by being in the right place, and around people who can help. Good salesmen use techniques like “mirroring,” and “leading,” to persuade you. Research from the new science of behavioral economics is applied by smart marketers to create methods of getting you to buy.

    Secret information isn’t all about influencing others. Most industries and human activities have little-known “tricks of the trade.” Wise real estate agents sell expensive homes, for example, because they know it takes the same work as selling a mobile home, but the commission can be five times as much. Those who don’t use this “secret” struggle to make a living.

    Certainly, subliminal techniques and other “forbidden knowledge” can be used for good or bad, so are they dangerous? Yes, especially if you’re not in on the secret. Why not start to gather some of your own secret information?

  • Creating the Best Year of Your Life

    At the end of each year, and on their birthdays, many people take time to reflect and look ahead. If you’re one of these people, or if you would like to get the benefits from a little self-reflection, then I have some brilliant questions for you.

    These questions can be looked at once a year, once a month, or whenever you’re looking for some direction in your life. I invite you to take a good hard look at your life more than once a year. You’ll get a lot more out of your life if you’re more conscious about what you’re creating.

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    Some of the questions weren’t developed by me and many are from a terrific book called “Your Best Year Yet: Ten Questions for Making the Next Twelve Months Your Most successful Ever” by Jinny S. Ditzler. I highly recommend it if you want to go a little deeper.

    These questions have been designed to help you take time to complete the year and to plan the new year from a clean slate. By working on the following questions, you will complete this year powerfully so you can have the room to build a new “me” for the new year.

    Looking at this past year:

    1. What do I want to be acknowledged for?
    2. What did I accomplish?
    3. What did I want to accomplish that I did not accomplish? (Do I still want to do this?)
    4. What did I say I would do that I didn’t do? (Do I still want to do this?)
    5. Who do I need to be in communication with?
    6. What were my biggest disappointments?
    7. What did I learn? – List 3 lessons which will make the most difference if you remember them this year?

    (See them as guidelines for next year).

    Changing patterns:

    1. How do you limit yourself and how can you transform these actions to be powerful?
    2. What do you say to yourself to explain your failures? (These false beliefs are your limiting paradigm).
    3. List your limiting paradigm.
    4. List your new paradigm, which must be personal, positive, present tense, powerfully and simply stated, pointing to an exciting future.
    5. Read your new paradigm out loud when you awake and before going to sleep each day. Teach your subconscious that this is your paradigm.

    Looking ahead:

    1. What are your personal values? What is most import to you in your life? What drives you?
    2. What roles do you play in your life? (List 8 or more). Then list new ones you want to incorporate into your life in the next year. Rate each role on a scale of 1 to 10 with 10 being the most important.
    3. Where is your life out of balance? If you could put one problem behind you, once and for all, what would it be?
    4. Which role is your major focus for next year? ( In what role do you want a breakthrough performance? If you could put a check mark by one of these roles at the end of next year showing, showing that you felt good about how you are playing that role, which one would it be?)
    5. What are your goals for each role?

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    How this works is that for at least a week or two, you ask yourself the above questions. I write them down and do it in writing several times. Then, after doing that for all the above questions, you answer one last question:

    What do I want to accomplish and who do I want to be in the coming year?

    Remember the old saying, “If you fail to plan, you plan to fail.” Give yourself the gift of self-reflection that will help you create the life you really want this year. It only takes an hour or two. Don’t you deserve better than settling for whatever shows up when fail to plan?… of course you do.

  • The Keys To Creating More Romance In Your Life Are Within You

    Since most people express the desire to have more romance in their lives, it really begs the question: How do you create a romance that lasts? What’s the secret to energizing your life with a lasting, vibrant romantic energy?

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    It’s critical to embrace the concept that we create our own reality. From moment to moment, we are literally creating the life we live out of a field of infinite potential. Thoughts, desires, attentions, and intentions are all crucial elements in manifesting the current reality in which we live.

    Regardless of specific religious or metaphysical belief, it is universally agreed that beneath the physical beingness there is a spiritual beingness as well, and that the nature of this spirit is infinite. And since at the true core of our being we are infinite, by definition we possess unlimited creative potential.

    The keys to unlocking and directing this potential, that is, creating our reality, have to do with the quality of our intention and desire, and how and where we focus our attention. What we focus on becomes our reality. This is one of the immutable laws of our universe.

    Your intentions have great power. They organize the infinite field of potential and bring it into harmony with your desires. Attention, on the other hand, enlivens your reality. If you want more of something, put your attention on it. Intend that it be so. This powerful combination of intention and attention helps mold your living reality from moment to moment.

    From this perspective, romance can be understood as a condition of loving reality that is created from moment to moment from and within the infinite field of pure potentiality. Often it happens spontaneously between two people. It seldom lasts long, however, and even more seldom forever. It is possible, though, to create a lasting romance; it takes honest desire, loving intention, and constant loving attention. Like any life force, romance needs constant nurturing to grow and stay healthy.

    So if you desire more romance in your life, start by thinking about the romance you want. Take time each day to envision your life with more romance in it. Try to visualize clearly what your life would be like, and how your conditions would change. Imagine yourself being romantic in vivid detail. Write down on paper your vision and read it daily. Post it somewhere where you can see it often.

    Also, examine your intention about romance. Are your intentions to create more love in your life, or are they about something else? And most important, are you committed to its creation? Over time, are you really willing to do what it takes to manifest it in your life?

    You can create anything in your life with honest and strong desire, positive and committed intention, and consistent loving attention. These are all keys to creating a lasting romance in your life as well.

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  • The Seven Day Life-Changing Happiness Challenge!

    You are about to discover a simple technique for creating massive changes in your quality of life.

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    Do you want to be happier? This technique can help.

    Do you want more time to spend with your family or friends, or even just time to relax by yourself? Then this seven day challenge is perfect for you.

    And best of all, it’s really easy to do.

    What is it?

    For the next seven days, turn off the news!

    Do not watch any news on the television.

    Do not listen to any news on the radio.

    Do not read the newspaper.

    And do not have a news headline website as your browser’s home page.

    Seven days! No news!

    Can you do it?

    Reducing exposure to the negativity of the news has produced massive changes in my life. It can and will do the same for you. However, please don’t take my word for it. Try it for just seven days and see for yourself.

    The time will pass quickly, so what have you got to lose? Worst case, you’ll miss a bit of news. Best case, you’ll be happier and more excited about your life. So, let’s give it a go!

    Why does this work? Simply because one of the fundamental laws of nature is that our thoughts produce our reality. If we focus our attention on the negatives in life, we will give power to the negativity, and it will grow.

    If we remove that negativity from our lives and focus on the positives, we will create more positives.

    The news is extremely negative. And the fact is that exposing yourself to most of this negativity adds NO value at all to your life.

    Simply put, turning off the news shields you from the onslaught of negativity and leaves you with time to fill your life with positives.

    So what you do with the extra time you now have available?

    No, do not just watch other TV!

    You want to replace this time with positive experiences which add value to your life.

    Spend some time alone, considering your life. Find out who you are. Find your life’s purpose, or your higher calling. Set some major goals for your future. Where would you like to go? Who would you like to go there with? What would you like to do for a living if there were no limitations?

    Spend some time with the people who are important in your life- your family and friends.

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    Consider getting back to nature. Take some time out for a relaxing walk in a park. Or sit at the beach and watch the waves. Relax!

    This is not just hiding from reality, and living in a fantasy land. I don’t expect you to forever hide from what’s going on in the world, especially in your local community. Just cut out all exposure to the negativity for seven days and then consider whether you feel happier and more excited about life.

    Once you’re aware of this alternative, happier way of living, you can then find a balance between being aware of current affairs, and your need to maintain separation from those issues.

    There is absolutely nothing to be gained by worrying about what’s going on elsewhere, especially when it’s outside of your sphere of influence. When you understand that, you can then choose what you listen to or watch on TV. You will regain control.

    If there is something that you need to know, trust me, someone will tell you anyway.

    And you will have more time available to experience a positive and friendly world.

    If you like the improvement this brings to your quality of life, then perhaps you could consider this is just a start. Why not also eliminate other TV which adds no value to your life.

    Seven days, no news! The results will be life-changing.

    It’s easy to do. However it’s also easy to not-do. Which will you choose?

    Even if there’s only the smallest chance of this working, wouldn’t it be worth trying?

    I know you can do it. Go for it!

  • Tips To Become Happier & More Empowered

    In a search for happiness, many people look for it in other people and not within ourselves. Many people feel things like money, a better job, better relationships etc. will make them happy. In reality, to find true contentment, you must look inside yourself and learn to be your own best friend. That means you have to trust, love, and care for yourself just as you do for the people you consider close to you.

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    Following are steps you can incorporate into your life that will help you feel more empowered and happy about yourself!

    Begin to lift yourself up, not put yourself down. If you don’t like something about yourself, work to change it. If you can’t change it, simply accept it. Don’t beat up on yourself with negative self-talk. You’re not likely to change for the better when you fill yourself with negative thoughts.

    Give yourself positive rewards. When you do something that you are proud of, give yourself a small reward. Try not to wait for others to praise you because you may grow resentful if the praise doesn’t come. Pat your own back, it is a great feeling that can stay with you for a long time.

    Forgive yourself. I doubt you would keep scolding a child over and over for making a mistake, so don’t do that to yourself. Give yourself the gift of forgiveness when you make a mistake. After that, work to figure out what lesson you can learn, and use it to make better choices the next time around.

    Enjoy your successes. Most people can remember all the details of depressing, painful, or even embarrassing events that happened many years ago. What if you did the same thing with all of your wins? Try to remember all the triumphs and accomplishments that you’ve made and keep that memory with you and think about it at least once a week.

    Always remember to celebrate your wonderful qualities! You soon discover that the more you love yourself, the more you will give love to others – and the more others will love you!

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    Life repeating the same old patterns? Embrace these 12 Laws of Karma to manifest a new version of yourself as well as life.

    The book is written with a to-the-point language and tone with the intent to reach the reader in a clear way.

    12 Laws of Karma will help you:
    • Understand your impact on whole world
    • Have awareness of how each one of us is connected
    • Achieve the growth you are looking for
    • Change the Karmic position
    • Understand how to get from here to there

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